1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 - 6 - 7 - 8 - 9 - 10 - 11 - 12 - 13 - 14 - 15 - 16 - 17
Attract Success
1."WE ALL NEED SOMEBODY TO LEAN ON"One of our primary needs as human beings is to feel the support of those around us. Ideally, we need to be nurtured and encouraged by our nuclear family first and then by an ever-widening circle of relatives, friends and teachers. Without that support, we tend to be less willing to try new things or stretch out of our comfort zones and live our dreams. Too fre. . .
The Enchanted Cottage
The Enchanted CottageDecades ago, I saw a metaphysical movie that wonderfully illustrates the alchemical power of love. In "The Enchanted Cottage," a homely, self-effacing maid and a blind, crippled war hero fall in love. She blossoms into an attractive, self-confident woman and he into a charming, handsome country gentleman, both happier than ever before.Oliver and Laura ascribe their transfor. . .
Letting go of anger and awaken to life's grand adventures
Anger can make us feel good and enlivened for a little while. When we are angry we are often feeling self-righteous, critical, judgemental and we have someone to blame for our own problems. However, anger can easily turned to hatred and this can lead to us doing and saying things we really did not mean to. It can also drain our vital energy and leave us feeling drained and washed out. Long term. . .
Coping With A Funeral
When the death of a loved one occurs, regardless or whether it was expected or not, you will find yourself having to deal with a great number of people. Some you will know closely, others may be complete strangers; all will be claiming some kind of relationship to the deceased.Whilst grieving for your loved one you may find yourself not wanting contact with anybody other than those to whom you. . .
Defining Success Your Way!
Our society defines success primarily around three elements: power, money and fame. Many of you reading this may be saying, “wait a minute –those elements are not the most important things to me.” Success is often intangible. It’s certainly unique to each person. Have you considered how you will know when you are successful? For one of my career coaching clients, a definition of success is havi. . .
The Springtime of Peace
The Springtime of Peace The deeper beauty of spring is its process. In winter's last days, as the sun warms the earth, each root and branch awakens to the patterned memory of who it is and what it can be. Life stirs and nature's growth in turn awakens all of us to the glories of being fully alive.Consciousness awakens in much the same way, doesn't it? One moment, everything is dark and still. G. . .
We Have Different Rules
One thing God's sheep are known for is encountering trials. The messes we make, the struggles we face, and the horrors Satan sends our way can sometimes seem endless. Even our service is more work than joy and reaps little result or reward. All of that would suddenly change if we could just get this one thing. We cannot overcome, succeed, or achieve any kind of spiritual greatness by the world. . .
'Tis More Blessed to (For) Give
When someone has made a slight blunder and their sincere remorse has been made known, it isn't all that hard to forgive. We pat ourselves on the back and think we did well. When severely wounded, we tend to embrace the hurt for awhile, play the role of a martyr (being righteous in our own eyes), make them suffer a little ... then, maybe we'll forgive. Now, we're really good Christians, huh? T. . .
When Doors Don't Open
One cannot blame man when God has not revealed the way. One cannot blame God when man has yet to obey. One cannot blame man when God hasn't opened the door. One cannot blame God when man lingers all the more. One cannot blame man when God's timing isn't right. One cannot blame God when man waits, due to fright. One cannot blame man when God wisely says, "Not just yet" One cannot blame God when . . .
Messengers of Love
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." Sometimes, it seems God asks the nearly impossible; His standards being so high that the average week kneed, belly aching, fearful person could never obtain ... defeating ourselves even before we've begun. Perhaps we don't listen carefully to what He said. Jesus didn't say we had to "give up" our lives, like vi. . .
Name it, Claim it
You've heard the expression 'Name it, Claim it'. Though we'd first need to know the intent of one's heart, the phrase implies to the Christian version of a spoiled brat ... "I'm your child. You owe me!" It has been said that God is honor bound to do as He said He would do. That statement is more correct. But, first, what did He say? Scripture was written as an example. God will love us in at l. . .
Your Choice
After a few days of noticing a fly trapped between a screen and window (without food, water, or whatever else bugs need), since he hadn't died, I decided to open the window to let it go free. Only, the fly refused to fly away, preferring starvation and imprisonment. And not only that but, another fly joined him! Misery likes company? I don't know. But then, I thought, "God, is that where we ar. . .
Christmas Gift Ideas ~ from the heart
1.)Invite those who's families are away, for a get-together on Christmas evening; to eat goodies, sing carols, and just visit (giving some a sense of family and something to look forward to).2.)Run errands for shut-ins.3.)Volunteer to serve food at a shelter.4.)Take someone, who can't drive, Christmas shopping.5.)Share your Christmas meal with a widower.6.)Do volunteer work at the hospital.7.)H. . .
Energize Your Life
Did you know that it takes energy to NOT do something or to NOT deal with a situation? Every time we put off some task or chore, we start using energy to remember to do it. We also use energy to avoid doing it. Once you start thinking about how many things you are putting up with, it's easy to realize that there is an incredible amount of energy that could be available to you just by addressing. . .
Battles of the Mind
Some thoughts on high blood pressure: cause and cure.If God is truly God and in control of all things, thenthe battles we face, whatever they be, are really only in the mind. Satan is like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. The only power Satan has is to roar, except we give him power over our minds. Whatever we hope to accomplish by carrying weights and burdens is futile. These are yo. . .
An Unexpected Letter
It was a couple of weeks after Christmas, and I was standing by my mailbox in the vestibule of the apartment building where I lived in Lexington, Kentucky, holding a letter I had just received. The handwriting was not familiar and neither was the return address, although it was postmarked Seattle, Washington, the same place where Hannah Paulson used to live.Many years ago when I was a little gi. . .
Dare to be Different
The more we discover who God is, the more we come to realize there is no opinion of value apart from God (in even the simplest of matters). For example: How many times have we had a profound thought, considering it of no importance to write it down (keeping it until its' divine purpose is revealed)? There is many a poet, song writer, or author whose gift God is trying to waken to use for Him .. . .
Fear of Firsts
Have you ever noticed that there is a surge of energy anytime you try anything for the first time. Sometimes it's pure excitement, anticipation of the good feeling you know you're going to have after you've done it. Sometimes it's nervousness, usually because you don't know exactly how you're going to feel once it's done, but the potential good feeling seems more likely than the potential bad f. . .
10 steps to a dynamic relationship
10 Steps to a dynamic relationship- Dialogue.Create a Forum Space.- Renew, RefreshBe open for new ideas, change. Think of modern trends, etc. - Spontaneity Anything to break the habits. Respond to inspiration, to new streams.- Have "Relationship Ambitions" Material, business, travels, discoveries, projects, etc.- Maintain a dynamic individual integrity Maintain activities where you are not toge. . .
Look in Your Fridge
Have you looked in your refrigerator lately? What do you find there? Leftovers from yesterday that are still appetizing? Or bits and pieces of meals you've eaten at some indeterminate time in the past? Do you save food that isn't enough for a meal for one, thinking you can incorporate it into some future gourmet creation? Is your fridge stocked with glowing, healthy, nutritious and appetizing f. . .
Sleep, Thoughts, Worries and Fears
Do you fall asleep immediately after entering bed or do thoughts and worries begin to flow into your mind, keeping your sleep away? Do you find it hard to stop them?When you are in bed at night there are fewer outside distractions, it is quiet and dark, and therefore you are more aware of the movements of your mind. You feel that thoughts are attacking you, not giving you a moment's rest, espec. . .
Who Controls Your Mind?
Few people are aware of the thoughts that pass through their minds. Thinking is performed like a habit, in an automatic manner. If the thoughts are positive, then it is all right, but if they are negative, they may cause trouble.The mind is like small child, who accepts and takes for granted whatever it sees or hears, without judgment and without considering the consequences. If you let your mi. . .
The Goldilocks Principle
Do you remember the story of Goldilocks and the 3 Bears? It's quite a simple story and as an adult only takes minutes to read. What most of us do remember is the repeated theme of 'too hot, too cold, just right', 'too hard, too soft, just right'. But how did Goldilocks know which was which? That's the question that comes up for me. How did she know which was 'just right' for her? There wasn't a. . .
Are You Stuck?
===========================================================Are You Stuck?(c) Copyright 2003 by Murdo Macleod===========================================================You know the feeling.There's something you want to do. You've thought about it,you've made your decision, and now it's time to act.Except... you don't.You want to take the next step, but "something" stops you.Do you know what that. . .
Emotional Response Primer
Have a good emotional response lately? Is there someone who makes you see red every time you're with them? Do you replay conversations over and over, getting upset or angry each time you do? You're not alone. Everyone I know does this. How frequently it happens, and how we handle these situations when it does, is a good indication of where we are on our spiritual path. When we accept total resp. . .
Give Up Giving and Start Being Generous
Most of us grow up strongly influenced by the concept that 'It is better to give than to receive'. For many of us, it becomes more than a nice sentiment, but a way of being. We take it to heart so much that we interpret it literally, and that's where we often get ourselves into trouble! That's often the problem with maxims. They're effective because they're short and to the point. However, it's. . .
What's the #1 Thing People Do Wrong?
I admit it. I'm frustrated. I'm tired of gettingemails from people who write, "I can't do what you didbecause ---." Just fill in the blank with whatever excuse you canthink of. People say they can't write as many books as I havebecause they don't have the time, or they're too old,or too young, or too married, or too single. People say they can't make their book a best-sellerlike I did because. . .
Welcome the Lessons
When we read of the great men of old, the mighty and the strong, the courageous, the faithful, those who slew thousands and ten thousands ... perhaps we also think of phrases like, "faster than a speeding bullet, more powerful than a locomotive, able to leap tall buildings with a single bound." In admiring their feats, we tend to think of these men as super human, almost supernatural, and near. . .
~ You Can Only Save Yourself
If I let my mate have their way, they may treat me better. If I pray long and hard enough, maybe they’ll go to church. If I share everything I’m learning, perhaps some of it will rub off. If I’m completely obedient and submissive, they will get saved.But, God says - you can’t save anyone but yourself, Ez. 14:14. If I choose my children’s friends, I can guard their influence. If I keep them at . . .
Do What You Know
Passion Pushes You Forward - So Do What You Know and Love!The process of starting a business or choosing a careeris very enjoyable and stressful at the same time. It's agood type of stress, but stress nonetheless. One way tokeep your sanity in the midst of growth is to do what you know!Let's say that your vision is to teach business, personaldevelopment and internet classes. Narrow the list dow. . .
Find The Best Tax Resources Right Here
Find The Best Tax Resources Right HereWhere can a business owner obtain tax information? When youdon't know what questions to ask, it's very helpful to takesome classes, and read a few articles prior to visiting witha CPA. Enjoy these resources:Internal Revenue Service (IRS)The IRS has the best free classes around! Call your localoffice to find out when the home business or soleproprietorship c. . .
Should I End This Relationship?
The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included. Notification of publication would be appreciated.Title: Should I End This Relationship?Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D.E-mail: mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2003 by Margaret PaulWeb Address: http://www.innerbonding.comWord Cou. . .
Use the power of letters to land the right job!
Don't spam! Your chances of moving beyond the original pile increase every time you make a connection with a reader. You actually communicate more when you prepare five targeted letters than 50 generic ones.Treat your cover letter as an opportunity to impress your target employer. For example, when you arrange to send your letter to the person making the hiring decision, you communicate that yo. . .
Does Being Professional Evolve Your Audience?
Does "Being Professional" Evolve Your Audience?Get that "lightening up" is a mark of the real proThe supreme accomplishment is to blur the line between work and play. --Arnold Toynbee, author--We recently attended the "MillPond" Festival in Bishop, CA. with a rather eclectic blend of musicians from all over the US and Europe in attendance. The “Laura Love Band” presented one of several inspirat. . .
Playing Tetris With Time
Publishing Guidelines: You have permission to publish this article electronically or in print, free of charge, as long as the resource box is included with a live link to my site. A courtesy copy of your publication would be appreciated. ***********************************************************Title: PLAYING TETRIS WITH TIME MANAGEMENTAuthor: Dave & Christine Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSWEmail: ma. . .
Does Master your beliefs, Master Your Emotions
Master your beliefs, Master Your EmotionsJoe makes a comment and you suddenly feel a rush of energy. Your face flushes and your knuckles whiten as you begin squeezing the edge of the table for dear life. Some part of you knows that this feeling is not proportionate to Joe’s comment or intention, but something was triggered in you nonetheless, and you’re ready to bite his head off.To be effectiv. . .
Who Needs a Rear-view Mirror? Successful Living by Mastering Our Past
When driving, we need to check our rear-view mirror every few minutes to perceive dangers lurking behind — tailgaters, hecklers, over speeding cars, and drivers under the influence. Aside from anticipating threats, it helps us contemplate our next move, giving us enough time to be cautious before overtaking or stopping or . . . slowing down.So for safety reasons, the rear-view mirror is essenti. . .
What Story Are You Enacting
What Story are you Enacting?How much of your life is directed from the foundation of unexamined mythology? What if we are all enacting some sort of story in our lives?Now what do I mean by story? I mean that we have some vision, set of ideas, or beliefs about ourselves that define us as a central character in what could be called a "myth" or "story" that we're living out. All of the elements of. . .
How To Entertain a Thought
After studying scores of great thinkers like Leonardo Da Vinci, I think I've stumbled upon what really set them apart from the rest of the folks living (and thinking) at the same time. It's remarkably simple. They learned how to entertain a thought. Aristotle said, "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." Hmmm. To entertain a thought without a. . .
It's The Thought That Counts!
Publishing Guidelines: You have permission to publish this article electronically or in print, free of charge, as long as the resource box is included with a live link to my site. A courtesy copy of your publication would be appreciated. ***********************************************************Title: IT'S THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS!Author: Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSWEmail: mailto:editor@overco. . .
Cultivate A Friendship With Death
Why We Fear Death "Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark." - Bacon There may be a thousand reasons why we fear death, but most of all we fear death because we fear the unknown, and death is an unknown entity to most people. We fear that dying may be painful and we do not know what will happen to us at the point of death. Some people fear death because they imagine the dying process. . .
Planning Ahead Of Everyone Else To Win
Planning Ahead Of Everyone Else To WinBy: Martin LemieuxWhat does it take to plan like a champion? Well lets take a look into our minds a little bit to answer this question.OK, I need you to be honest to yourself with these next questions. If you lie, you will only lie to yourself and will have learned nothing...1) Do you regularly plan ahead?2) Does your plans involve EVERYTHING you ever wante. . .
Enjoy the Ride
Letters on Life #11 November 2003 Enjoy the Ride Many people have been saying this era is different, that there's more stress and more to worry about. While it is true we have major concerns so did past generations. No matter what our challenges are, the decisions and choices we make on a day to day basis determine our ability to enjoy ourselves. I recently wrote, in Embrace Change that my so. . .
What Is Life Coaching?
Publishing Guidelines: You have permission to publish this article electronically or in print, free of charge, as long as the resource box is included with a live link to my site. A courtesy copy of your publication would be appreciated. ***********************************************************Title: WHAT IS LIFE COACHING?Author: Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSWEmail: mailto:editor@overcoming-de. . .
The Top 10 Ways to Overcome Procrastination: The Challenge for Tomorrow!
Did you realize that as much as 47% of the time we spend on-line has nothing whatsoever to do with our work? In 1978 15% of the population stated that they do procrastinate somewhat. Only 1% admitted to chronic procrastination. In 2002 the numbers quadrupled! 60% of people stated that they experience mild to moderate procrastination in their lives and 6% stated that procrastination ruled their . . .
Confessions of a Lover of Books and Learning
Many of us love to read. Some of us who love to read the most are introverts, so I went to the source to find out what it’s all about. There’s a great readers’ survey on TheIntrovertzCoach ( http://www.theintrovertzcoach.com/booksurvey.html ) and yes, Easy Reader that I am, I participated. You're invited to, too! Here are two things that seem to be true of people who have developed a love of re. . .
Financial Freedom
A True Testimony of the Journey from Spiritual Poverty to Riches Beyond Measure Having been raised/programmed with all the principals of a virtuous woman, Granny also lived in our home (a survivor of the Great Depression). Additionally, with four siblings, eight to nine people lived in our house at any given time. Parents being in mission work, we were also the 'home away from home' for uncoun. . .
100% Return
One Hundred Percent Return On Your Investment - Guaranteed!!! And, you don’t have to pay financial advisers, investment firms, or risk being conned by yet another mail order advertisement. In fact, there is no money required. Isn’t that cool? Jesus said, “Everyone that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or lands for my name’s sake, shall receive an h. . .
Mythology
Mythology & Parables in Modern Communication Part 2 Maurice Turmel PhDThere is a big adjustment coming in terms of our Human and Spiritual evolution, where Mythology and Parables will again play a vital role in the process. As mentioned in part 1, when our usual systems of information discernment fail us – you – we – I – will turn back to something familiar and old.Myths are as old as the dawn . . .
En-JOY Your Life!
Have you ever noticed that your state of mind, whether you're happy, sad, angry, fearful, feeling any emotion at all, is directly related to what you're thinking? True, there may be an external situation that's causing you to have those thoughts, but it's your thoughts that dictate how you are feeling, not the situation. I'm sure you can think of a time when you heard a piece of news that would. . .
Simplify, Simplify, Simplify
Just as location is the key driver to success in real estate, simplification is the key to success in life. No matter how much you want your life to change, it's impossible if there is no room for change. We tend to fill our lives with activity and with 'stuff'. It's supposed to mean we're successful, that we're fully living. The reality is that it usually just leaves us feeling overwhelmed, cr. . .
God Wants to Heal You!
Many years ago, God led me through scripture to show me that Jesus healed all who came to Him, no exceptions ... and that healing is still available for us, today ... God doesn't change ... according to your faith be it unto you. Even in Paul's case, grace always has a point of redemption. My mother was in excruciating pain with Rheumatoid Arthritis. Thus, for years, I sought, searched, warred. . .
10 Strategies for Stress-Free Living
1. Identify and live by your values.When we know what our values are, and our goals and actions are in harmony with our values, we are seldom stressed or in conflict about what we are doing. 2. Complete the PastSometimes we hang on to voices or perceived injustices from the past, long after the person or situation is dead and gone. By bringing closure to these events, we are free to move forwar. . .
What Causes Holiday Stress?
The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included. Notification of publication would be appreciated.Title: What Causes Holiday Stress?Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D.E-mail: mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2003 by Margaret PaulWeb Address: http://www.innerbonding.comWord Count: . . .
Share Your Story
0123456789012345678901234567890123456789012345678901234567890123PUBLISHING GUIDELINESYou have permission to publish this article electronicallyor in print, free of charge, as long as the bylines areincluded. A courtesy copy of your publication would beappreciated.Share Your StoryStorytelling is one of the most powerful methods to inform your audience while increasing participation and trust.As . . .
Boxing it Up for Christmas
If there’s one thing your introverted child would like for Christmas more than anything else in the whole world, it’s a room with a door that closes.It’s not as simple as asking for one. And by the way, a closet will do and even a big box as you’ll see. That’s how strong the need is for an introvert to have a place of their own. Introverts are territorial because of their great need for persona. . .
Bolstering Beliefs
At some time in your life you have probably used affirmations or other positive self-talk to change an attitude, opinion or behavior. The more you have done this, the more you know that sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. What makes the difference? Why are there times when you only need to say the affirmation once and your whole life changes? And yet you repeat other affirmations relig. . .
10 Reasons to Identify Your Values
Living your life 'in integrity' means that your words match your actions which match your beliefs. When you are living your life in harmony with your values, you naturally have more energy. Clarifying what really matters to you, knowing what you stand for, will set you free to live life to its fullest potential. 1. If you don't know who you are, you can't be true to your self. Sounds obvious, b. . .
Becoming Free of Debt
What keeps the most people from developing wealth? What is the greatest obstacle to retirement?If you could eliminate one thing to position yourself for financial peace and security, what would be?The answer to each question above is debt!Imagine the freedom and peace you would feel with no debt!Imagine the small portion of your paycheck you would need to meet your needs and obligations if the . . .
"I Need Some Help. May I Ask You Something?" (Giving and Receiving Quality Advice)
Author: Lee WiseCopyright Date: 2003Word count: 563/bioCharacters/line: 60 "I NEED SOME HELP. MAY I ASK YOU SOMETHING?" Giving And Receiving Quality Advice © Lee Wise 2003 All rights reservedI JUST WASN'T SURE...I was in one of those "I'm not so sure what to think aboutthis" moments when I stepped inside the office of a friend.Had you been there, I am fairly certain you would have noticed the s. . .
I See...I Must...I Will: Three Key Words To Help Us Live Exceptional Lives
Author: Lee WiseCopyright Date: 2003Word Count: 453 w/bioCharacters/line: 60 I SEE... I MUST...I Will Three Key Words To Help Us Live Exceptional Lives © Lee Wise 2003 All rights reservedA GREAT TRIOIf someone were to present a set of Olympic medals to thetop three finalists for key phrases that help propel ustoward living an exceptional style of life, the finalistsmight very well be: *I see!. . .
MY CAREER IS IN THE DOLDRUMS…Do I need a Coach or a Therapist?
Is Monday the worst day of your week? Can you hardly remember when you enjoyed going to work? Do friends ask why you seem so down? Maybe this has been going on awhile, and you’re realizing it’s time to do something. But where do you turn? At one moment you tell yourself “It’s just my career…Change that, and everything will be OK”. Another moment, you acknowledge you’re living under a cloud and . . .
Create Your Own Positive Memories Legacy
Author: Lee WiseCopyright date: 2003Word count: 696 w/bioCharacters: 60/line CREATE YOUR OWN "POSITIVE MEMORIES" LEGACY Working Hard At Making A Lasting Impression On Your World © Lee Wise 2003 All rights reservedAll of us have the potential of leaving a set of positivememories in the minds and hearts of people. I would *love* to know that the memories people have of me will be a blessing to th. . .
Journal For Life: The Art Of Capturing How We Live
Author: Lee WiseCopyright Date: 2003Word Count: 2128 w/bioCharacters/line: 60 JOURNAL FOR LIFE The Art Of Capturing How We Live © Lee Wise 2003 All rights reservedI will share with you a few of my on-going thoughts regarding the practice of keeping a journal.I am not an expert on subject: but I am a proponent ofthe art. This is a highly *personal* article, and segments of whatI have written ma. . .
People Questions: Responding Positively To The Influence Of Others
Author: Lee WiseCopyright date: 2003Word count w/bio: 609Characters/line: 60 PEOPLE QUESTIONS Responding Positively To The Influence Of Others © Lee Wise 2003 All rights reserved Everyone understands the power of an excellent question. Aquestion that: *Causes us to take stock of our lives *Encourages us to become better persons *Inspires us to help someone *Is the spark for initiating changeOn. . .
SEARCHING FOR YOUR CALLING – Quest or Curse?
Judging by the extraordinarily positive reader response to Po Bronson’s What Should I Do With My Life?, people are aching for a sympathetic outlook on their stories of career dissatisfaction. They tend to be their own harshest critics, often riddled with self-doubt and embarrassment about not getting this “career thing” right. Maintaining a constructive attitude is challenging. In spite of cont. . .
The 12 Birds of Christmas
The hustle and bustle of the holiday season is joyful for some people and stressful for others. If you begin to feel pressured by a need to give just the right gift or the perfect holiday meal, perhaps these commonsensical birds of Christmas will re-mind you to peaceful balance.So often we forget that the real gift of the season is each and every one of us--which means you!1. Fly like an eagle . . .
Success, Elbow Grease And A Little Luck
Publishing Guidelines: You have permission to publish this article electronically or in print, free of charge, as long as the resource box is included with a live link to my site.A courtesy copy of your publication would be appreciated. ***********************************************************Title: SUCCESS, ELBOW GREASE AND A LITTLE LUCKAuthor: Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSWEmail: mailto:edit. . .
How to Identify a Great Search Firm
How to Identify a Great Search FirmQ & AQ: Are people sometimes cautious of ‘headhunters’?A. Yes. However the industry has evolved over the last decade and steadily gained more respect. Now recruiters go to the same lengths that other professionals do to be certified by obtaining a Certified Personnel Consultant (CPC) designation.Q: Is it appropriate to approach a professional recruiter or shou. . .
Grief And The Holidays
Publishing Guidelines: You have permission to publish this article electronically or in print, free of charge, as long as the resource box is included with a live link to my site. A courtesy copy of your publication would be appreciated. ***********************************************************Title: GRIEF AND THE HOLIDAYSAuthor: Dave Turo-Shields, ACSW, LCSWEmail: mailto:editor@overcoming-de. . .
Three Steps Critical to New Year's Resolutions That Work
his is the time of year when many of us will make NewYear’s resolutions-some out of habit, others out of thesincere hope to improve some aspect of life. Research andexperience tell us that most resolutions fail. Why is that?There are many reasons-some quite obvious, such as notreally wanting to make the change-but one reason thataccounts for many resolution failures isn’t reported in thegeneral. . .
Calendars and Personality Type
I recently conducted a survey to look at the relationship between an individual’s personality type and his or her organizing and time management style, and noticed that the majority of participants said they have a calendar system that works for them. As there are so many time management systems available, both paper-based and electronic, I thought it would be interesting to find out which cale. . .
Faithless
Aside from how difficult it is to say the word, what does being faithless have to do with being successful? Isn't it important to HAVE faith?Absolutely, faith is important.It is equally important to be able to let go of a previously conceived notion of ourselves, in order to make room for greater abundance. I first discovered this term, faithless, in Oriah Mountain Dreamer's book, "The Invitati. . .
Resolutions? Try this!
Several articles and newsletters with the message that New Year’s resolutions are a worthless exercise and a poorly disguised setup for failure have passed across my desk this last week, and the year before, and the year before that. I do not believe in failure! There is always something good to be found in any learning experience. Besides, if we always succeeded at everything we did, we would . . .
Special Report: What Do IQ Tests and the SAT Measure, and Where Does EQ Fit In?
I was telling a therapist the other day about someone’s score on the SAT. “Oh,” he said, waving his hand in dismissal, “THAT thing. It doesn’t measure a THING.” Let’s set the record state. What he meant was – (1) It doesn’t measure anything he cared about, or (2) It doesn’t measure anything that need slow the person down. But it definitely measures SOMETHING, and if you’re the HR person reviewi. . .
Drawing On Creativity: How To Trick Your Brain
Can you draw? Your answer to that question reveals a surprising amount about your brain and the way you integrate your right and left hemispheres. (In this article, the left side will be referred to as the dominant one, which is by far the most likely scenario.)You see, the left side of the brain excels at verbal, analytical, rational and logical tasks. It's the dominant half. It takes over mos. . .
Tough Times
Publishing Guidelines: This article may be freely publishedso long as the author's resource box, bylines, and copyrightare included.TITLE: Tough TimesAUTHOR: Jerry LopperCONTACT: jerry@yourcoachtosuccess.comCOPYRIGHT: ©2004 by Jerry Lopper. All rights reservedWORD COUNT: 510FORMAT: This article is formatted to 61 cpl.----------For most of us, life is a mixture of placid and tumultuousexperience. . .
How to Chat Someone Up 101 (for Introverts)
Many introverts today are accepting positive self images for themselves. After all, introversion is a legitimate personality style. We are learning not to try and be like someone else but to make the most of who we are. Famous introverts like Sir Isaac Newton, Mother Theresa, Jackie Kennedy, Albert Einstein and Michael Jackson give us great examples and even more permission to be who we are and. . .
Free Will To The Rescue
Today's society and your private world are the results of freewill. We have arrived here today through intention, ignorance orabuse. Some people understand and use free will daily. Some people completely deny it. And other people simply mock it andcomplain it "doesn't work."Free will gives you the power of choice. You always have a choice.You can choose the same behavior or path you usually sel. . .
19 Essentials for Your Valentine's Day
1.The Top 10 Smoochy Love Songs: http://www.topten.org/public/BB/BB415.html2.List of lovey-dovey movies to rent … “Ghost,” “Princess Bride” … http://www.inspirationpoint.com/ipmovies.htm3.The heart-shaped griddle or frying pan for your Valentine’s pancakes and fried eggs: http://www.romanticgifts.com/RomanticGifts/njscat.nsf/adminCatalog/E329061D73D3165188256A31001EE646!OpenDocument&15.+Kitchen. . .
You Are Never Alone
The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included. Notification of publication would be appreciated. Title: You Are Never Alone Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D. E-mail: mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2003 by Margaret Paul Web Address: http://www.innerbonding.com Word Count: 682. . .
Even Big Kids Spill: Affirming People In An In Your Face World
Author: Lee WiseCopyright Date: 2002Word Count: 573 w/bioCharacters: 60/line EVEN BIG KIDS "SPILL!" Affirming People In An In Your Face World © Lee Wise 2002 All rights reservedIt still happens -- even with adults. I know. I was the culprit this time. The glass "just appeared." My arm hit that crazy glass ofof water. Almost instantly the water was... On the table. On the floor. "Messy." But . . .
For Every Ten New Year Resolutions, Nine Will Fail. Here’s The Missing Secret About Motivation…
How many times have you made a New Year Resolution only to give up weeks later? And then you’ll blame lack of time… lack of motivation… willpower or so on. Yet there is no one alive who lacks motivation, time or willpower. Take for example the millions of people who every year declare that this time they are going to lose some weight. Just weeks later they start beating themselves up for lackin. . .
The Secret to Instantly Boost Your Self-Esteem
I have read thousands of books, articles and message board posts about self-esteem. And most of them are the equivalent of painting a house that is about to collapse.Keep yourself busy. Get out more. Achieve something. Write three good things about yourself. Buy new clothes and take an effort over your appearance.Almost no one takes the time to think what the problem really is. It doesn’t matte. . .
HOW POOR ARE YOU!
Do you want to know your poverty graph? You are poor if you: - do not have a firm commitment with yourself to succeed - do no set goals and follow them through - do not put your best efforts at work - do not keep yourself updated on new information and technologies - do not adopt a positive attitude and get rid of negative thinking - are not strong enough to accept the challenges of day-to-day . . .
How To Be a Champion in Your Life
Are you left with inspiration but no action after hearing, reading, and watching stories about other people who are successful? If so, you're not alone. I've got a question for you: Why watch Oprah when you can be on Oprah instead? Don't you see different guests on her show every day? They're people just like you. They didn't start out on Oprah, they ended up there and it wasn't by luck either.. . .
Assimilation vs Accumulation
Assimilation vs AccumulationThe practice of getting full nourishment from everything in your life.Western culture has reached a level of material wealth greater than at any time in history. We include in this material wealth, wealth of information as well. Currently, at the pinnacle of our ability to manipulate our environment and produce all the things we need, and many that we don't, it's ent. . .
Imagination is Power
Imagination John Lennon entitled a song "Imagine." Thoreau once said: "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined." Neville once said: "Imagination is the very gateway of reality." Exactly what is all of this talk about "imagination?" Imagination is a redeeming force. It can transform all of the unlovely image making and violence in the world. IMAGINATION IS P. . .
The Giving Spirit
What are your holidays like? Are the chestnuts roasting on an open fire? Sometimes before the Thanksgiving dishes have been cleared away, we are out the door and digging deep into our pocketbooks and spending lavishly on things we don’t even care about. The Sales are on and we are determined to survive the personal trials of "mall shopping". The bells are ringing as we get deeper into debt or u. . .
Can We Talk?
One of the easiest ways to complicate our lives is in the area of interpersonal relationships, and the closer the people are to us, the more complicated it can get! Misunderstandings arise in the blink of an eye: a poor choice of words, an unconscious gesture, an incorrect interpretation, sometimes a deliberate attack. All of these cause strain on our relationships and stress on all the parties. . .
Honor Your Creativity
Many years ago, I saw a movie entitled 'The Last of Sheila', starring James Coburn, Dyan Cannon, James Mason, to name just a few. I love mysteries and I still remember this as one of the best I've ever seen. The overall mystery was very enjoyable and the individual puzzles were finely crafted and quite ingenious. What really struck me about this movie, however, is the fact that it was written b. . .
Becoming Excellent: Outsmarting Racism
Thinkers know better than to be racist. It's generally understood that racists are, well, not thinkers. It's not that racists are necessarily stupid--it's that they are ignorant. We like to think that racists are choosing to hang on to their bias because they don't know any better. Those of us who are educated--or who think--can overcome any bias through information and intention. Right? Tell t. . .
Simplify the Season
Let's take a look at a typical Christmas To-Do list: bake cookies, buy and make gifts, attend office party, church commitments, address and mail cards, clean the house for guests, decorate...it goes on and on.... The holidays are meant to be a time of joy and family celebration. But all the running around we do can zap the fun. Here are some ideas to simplify the season. Gift Giving: * Purchase. . .
Put Yourself Out of Your Misery and Quit
It happens. You hate your boss, but you love your job. Or you love your boss, but hate your job. Or you’ve seen a colleague in that position, or you have a client so encumbered. I’ve seen it play itself out in more than one work situation. In fact, in one situation, I accompanied the manager who went to tell Ms. Employee, and I quote, “He’s not going to change. You’re going to lose. Save yours. . .
Thanksgiving (with Emotional Intelligence) Haiku
Celebrate your Thanksgiving with EQ and INTENTIONALITY Thanksgiving comes soonReview your basic EQIntend to enjoy.POSITIVE OUTLOOKHoliday at Bill’sI miss my own great stuffingI focus elsewhere.OPTIMISMChristmas will soon comeI have way too much to doOptimistic, I. SELF-SOOTHINGThanksgiving at Mom'sMy sisters will fight againI will breathe deeply. FLEXIBILITYDinner at Kayla'sWhat's this, we're h. . .
Alone for the Holidays?
The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included. Notification of publication would be appreciated. Title: Alone for the Holidays? Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D. E-mail: mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2003 by Margaret Paul Web Address: http://www.innerbonding.com Word Count:. . .
BECOMING A MODERN AMERICAN GENTLEMAN
America, isn’t is time for men and women to actively demonstrate greater awareness, kindness and respect? With so many “relationship challenged” Americans, a majority of men and women would agree to celebrating this idea and would be willing to try a different path to happiness. Who better to aid in the transition than writer/physician Dr. Michael Hall, author of The American Gentleman: A Conte. . .
What is your PROBLEM? There Must Be 50 Ways to…”
“What is your problem?” Have you ever gotten exasperated and asked someone that in “that” tone of voice?Mary: “I want to move near my grandchildren, but how on earth will I move myself up there alone?”You: “Just call a moving company. What is your PROBLEM?”Abby: “I hate being an entrepreneur, but you have no idea how hard it is to get back into a corporation with all the downsizing.You: “Just c. . .
Optimism: How To Avoid Negative Thinking
Have you ever wondered why some people feel down and defeated when faced with difficult situations, while others feel challenged and hopeful? Or why some people get all worked up and angry over small inconveniences and disagreements, while others respond more positively? These different reactions are due to how people interpret events - whether they view things from an optimistic or a pessimist. . .
Overcoming Loneliness this Christmas
Christmas is one of those times when the social norm is to get together with our families even if you never see them during the year. For those people who are isolated from their families, or do not have a family, it can be a time of great loneliness and even depression. The day can remind us of what we do not have in our lives. Even if this does not bother us at any other time of the year, it . . .
1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5 - 6 - 7 - 8 - 9 - 10 - 11 - 12 - 13 - 14 - 15 - 16 - 17
|