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You Can’t Do That!
You can’t do that, does this phrase sound familiar? I am pretty sure you heard it before. Family and friends will tell you that when you communicate one of your life’s desires or dreams. You probably shared the information expecting them to be happy about your new venture. But, guess what? The response you get is: You can’t do that, you are crazy, why don’t you do this instead etc.Phrases like. . .
Keys to prosperity
Is it possible to get rich quick using the power of your mind? Sometimes, I think the only people getting rich are the authors of bestsellers with titles such as "Simply Abundant, Creating Prosperity and Miracle Power For Infinite Riches". However, we keep buying these books, because most of us have also experienced first-hand the consequences of a law of nature: do a good deed and it comes bac. . .
10 Compelling Reasons to “Stop Singing the Blues” Part II
6. Cultivate your strengthsWhen you work to develop your inner strengths, you:· polish your diamond and stop singing the blues· will become more confident, optimistic and focused. The more developed your strengths, the more likely you are to aspire to higher goals and achieve a life of great satisfaction and joy. My favorite analogy is one used by Edward Anderson and Donald O. Clifton. In their. . .
Date Lying
The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included, with hyperlinks. Notification of publication would be appreciated.Title: Date LyingAuthor: Margaret Paul, Ph.D.E-mail: mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2005 by Margaret PaulURL: http://www.innerbonding.comWord Count: 765Cate. . .
Relax And Think Clearly
Learning To Be In The MomentImagine thinking clearly, and feeling relaxed at will. Could you get more done? Enjoy life more? Would you like to know how to do that right now? Start by learning how to put yourself more in the moment with a simple mindfulness exercise. Basic Mindfulness ExercisesA basic mindfulness exercise begins with sitting down, relaxing and breathing deeply. Close your eyes . . .
Meditation Is Like A Dinner Party
Try Not To Force Things Too MuchOften, when meditating, we try too hard to force a certain state of mind that we think we should have. We try hard to suppress thoughts, for example. This is just another thought, of course, and another obstacle to the peaceful state we are hoping for. So how do you make things happen that can't be forced? The question itself shows the need for another perspectiv. . .
Create Your First Dream Board
(Dream It, Create It, Become It)Have you ever heard of "Dream Boards" or "Treasure Maps"? A Dream Board is a visual picture of the dreams you have for your life. Some of my clients also use this concept to visualize their businesses! It's their first business plan.One thing that is important to remember, though, is not to "get stuck" on your dream boards. We all have plans for our future, but i. . .
10 Compelling Reasons to “Stop Singing the Blues” Part I
Are you:- feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied with your life?- ready to stop holding yourself back from success?Is it time to:- get rid of self-sabotaging thoughts that keep you down?- say goodbye to the blues and take control of your life?Then the following life-changing information is for you!We're all born with the potential for living a fulfilled, happy and enjoyable life. Some of us achie. . .
1 Step You Should Take to Alleviate Anxiety When Meeting Women
Has a similar scenario like this one ever happened to you before?You’ve met a pretty lady on a matcher maker website and you’ve both planned to hook up at a local coffee shop to meet in person for the first time. You’re quite excited by this meet and greet as you think she is quite a hottie. But once you get there, anxiety kicks in and you feel your heart about to jump out of your throat as you. . .
If Only, If Only, If Only
"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in the world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can't find them, make them." - George Bernard ShawIF ONLY, IF ONLY, IF ONLYRemove these words from your vocabulary!The words "If only …" are disempowering and focus solely on the past. . .
THE TRUTH ABOUT USING AFFIRMATIONS
THE TRUTH ABOUT USING AFFIRMATIONSDoes the practice of “saying affirmations” really work?We've all heard about using affirmations as part of our personal growth. But have you ever tried them? Most people who have tried using affirmations have done so with mixed results. Some people have trouble with affirmations because affirmations sometimes “feel like a lie”.And frankly, a lot of people feel . . .
Healthy Grief, Unhealthy Grief
We all know that it is in one’s highest good to grieve the loss of a relationship. Healthy grief releases feelings rather than allowing them to get stuck in the body. Healthy grief allows the griever to heal the loss and move on with life.Yet grief is not always healing. Many of us have known people who were stuck in their grief, seemingly locked into the past and unable to move forward in the. . .
LIFE HAPPENS
Shit happens. I know this to be a fact, because I read it on a t-shirt. ;-)It's one of those simple truths that most people agree with, even though they may not like the crude language. Life is full of unwelcome surprises. It does not progress in a flawless path, no matter how hard you try, no matter how cautious you are. Sooner or later something happens to throw you off guard. It could be an . . .
The Simplest Way to Receive What You Desire
Everything God has created is made of energy. The only difference between an atom of a tree and an atom of a mushroom is that the atom of a tree has energy that is vibrating at different frequencies than the atom of a mushroom. It is evidently clear that the same particles growing together in a tree, or in a mushroom, are because they are vibrating at the same frequency. Everything is made up o. . .
Dating Someone with Another Faith Background
You’re dating and your religious beliefs are different. Howmuch difference does this make?The answer is: Another person’s religious beliefs areimportant to you to the degree they’re important to you. This may sound like begging the question, but it’s animportant thing to ‘get’. Assuming you’re looking formarriage, you need to make a “must have” and “can’t stand”list. If certain religious belief. . .
Mindfulness and Creativity: The Wow of Wonder
You are so creative. Don't deny it. Whether or not you consider yourself a creative type, the truth is that you are constantly creating ideas. Mindfulness invites you to be aware of this constantly flowing river, and offers an opportunity to choose to sit beside it instead of swimming in it. By watching the ideas from that calm riverbank, you can more clearly see the ones that float to the top . . .
Time Management - A Fresh View
Last week I had the privilege of spending some quality time with a dear friend. Unfortunately we live on opposite sides of the world, so we do not spend a lot of time together, but when we do get together it is an uplifting experience.Paul and his wife, Glenys have just finished moving into a beautiful new dream home that they have built. It was the first time that I had seen it, and after show. . .
What Do I Need to Start Scrapbooking?
The best thing about scrapbooking is that although there are a plethora of scrapbooking supplies available on the market, you really don't need a lot to make your very first scrapbook. Basically, all you need to scrapbook is an album, some glue, a pair of scissors, and some photographs or newspaper clippings. Any fabric, ribbon, or bits of leftovers from other projects can be used to embellish . . .
Letting Go Can Be Hard But Doable
Being a coach, I learned through attending Coach Universityabout letting go of the "stuff" in my life that no longerfueled it. This enhanced itself through my studies inbecoming a master practitioner in the laws of attraction --the process of how our environment, the things and people init, affect what we attract in the present moment. Alongwith this came the sensing of the heaviness of possess. . .
How to Overcome Procrastination in 4 Simple Steps
If procrastination is holding you back in life, these 4 simple steps are a sure way to help you overcome your endless struggle with procrastination. You’ll soon be able to achieve those daunting tasks and in some cases, even look forward to doing them!Step 1: Identify the REAL cause of your procrastinationThe first step is finding out what causes procrastination. People often use the word as if. . .
Getting it right the second time around!!!
Getting it right the second time around!!! Getting what we want!Nice title.. I think its pretty clear what we are talking about here. how many of us really get what we want???how many of us know how to get what we want??What about the few that already have what they want & still arent happy?? I think we all have heard that sometimes getting all that we want isnt what we really want. I created t. . .
Nettles The Needles Sting
Spring is a time of rebirth the plants all put on new green overcoats and the babies are born to the animals. As I road along today out in the country seeing, colts, calves, and lambs it reminded me that now is the time to plant the new seeds of intention for my life. Now is the time to plant seeds of intentions and actions in your life. You can energetically transform right alongside the growt. . .
Dump Those Negative Tapes
Every time something doesn't go quite right (rather frequently for some of us), we start berating ourselves. We can be the soul of courtesy and forgiveness to those we care about and then turn and savage ourselves in the most brutal fashion. How many times have you told yourself: "I'm an absolute idiot!" What was I thinking?" And that is just the start.From those immediate negative self-assessm. . .
The Key To Self Liberation
HEALTH Good in Your Skin Invited by the Albertville Health Group, Christiane Beerlandt came from Ostend to explain at length the psychological and emotional origins of the most important diseases and symptoms that can strike us. She underlined the deeper meaning of earthly life and, especially, our self-healing powers. One has never seen an elephant swinging by a frail liana, no more than a. . .
Get Blissed!
Elton John, Billy Joel, Phil Collins and Freddie Mercury all have something in common, aside of a smidge of talent and the fact they all became pop-stars. Watch Elton John perform I’m Still Standing or Billy Joel play My Life at their pianos, or witness Freddie Mercury winding up for We are the Champions or Phil Collins on drums during In The Air Tonight, and you’ll witness something magical ha. . .
Fear of Flying
The plane was bouncing hard as we were starting our decent into Albuquerque. Living in Santa Fe, I’ve flown in and out of Albuquerque airport a lot due to my workshop schedule. It’s always bumpy. The woman sitting next to me was gripping the armrests and shaking, scared to death. I turned to her and asked her if she would like some help. She nodded.“Don’t worry, nothing bad is going to happen. . . .
Forgiving the Unforgiveable
Forgiving the UnforgivableHow many years are you going to carry that unforgivable injury? How many years are you going to be controlled by it? How painful is it to carry this pain? What is it costing you? What are the payoffs for holding onto it? When you get sick and tired of carrying this, you'll make the choice to let it go and to forgive that person for hurting you. The results will be ind. . .
Six Steps to Personal Success
Trying to keep up with the Jones only drags good, honest, hard-working people into more credit debt and despair. The Jones' lifestyle looks glamorous on the outside with their big house, high class automobiles and other luxury items. However, on the inside, it’s only a matter of time before this unstable house of cards comes crashing down.The following statistics are evidence:• Over three milli. . .
Spiritual Friendships
Title: Spiritual FriendshipsAuthor: Heather J. TaitWebsite: http://www.silencespeaks.comWord Count: 473As we walk along our paths in life, we will encounter several forms of friendships. There will be friends of convenience, friends by association, and friends of the heart. Friends out of convenience are friendships that you might have simply because you both are accessible to one another. Thes. . .
Establishing Your Charisma Presence
Establishing Your Charisma PresenceAn integral piece of charisma is establishing a presence, so let'sexamine 3 ways to establish your charisma presence, that will clearlytell all around you "I'm a player and a force to be reckoned with!". Your Mother Was Right:"Stand up Straight!"; "Head up!"; "Shoulders back!"; "Chest out!";"Don't slouch!"; are some other things you heard as a child. Probablyw. . .
Compassionate Living
Title: Compassionate LivingAuthor: Heather J. TaitEmail: contact@silencespeaks.comURL: Silence Speaks, http://www.silencespeaks.comWord Count: 827*** ARTICLE ***As we grow into a more spiritual means of living it changes our outlooks and perspectives. What we once did not recognize or were aware of in our conscious every day life, we begin to pay attention to. We begin looking at the fine lines. . .
Get Out of Your Way!
We hear a lot these days about accepting responsibility for our actions and it is about time we did. Time is out for casting blame and pointing righteous fingers at others to cover up for our own inappropriate behaviors. We have got to “nip it, nip it, nip it in the bud” if for no other reason than our own mental health.So, let’s begin by taking a look at the process that ultimately leads to ou. . .
Sharing Your Purpose With Others
Title: Sharing Your Purpose With OthersAuthor: Heather J. TaitWebsite: http://www.silencespeaks.comWord Count: 631There is a time for silence and stillness that stumbles upon our awakened state of being. It is at this time we may lurk in the background and move slowly with the wind that carries us. It is through this stillness that we hear ourselves. It is through this silence that we are able . . .
How To Find Out Quickly And Easily What You Want From Life
No matter how young or old you are, you must have gotten to a point in your life when you have to take a big decision, which will probably affect your entire existence. There is no doubt that there are certain moments in life when you feel helpless and disoriented and believe you could use a hand in order to figure out how to proceed with your life. Those particular moments are the very moments. . .
6 Secrets to Happiness
6 Secrets to HappinessBy: Lynne E KaskaHave you ever thought that you could have more, be more and do more? Have you ever wondered what it would take to really have a successful life? What if you could have the life of your dreams?Happiness is just within your reach. It’s just on the other side of the gnawing fear. It’s just on the other side of that self-defeating game that you keep on playin. . .
Developing A Positive Mental Attitude In The 21st Century
We have all heard that positive thinking works miracles, and whilst that statement may be something of an exaggeration, it is true to say that positive thinking can go a long way to helping you change your life for the better. If you think in a positive way then you automatically begin to act in a more positive way, and the results you get in life are therefore more likely to be positive ones.D. . .
Too much to do in so little time
Are you feeling swamp or overwhelm with work, school, chores etc.? Do you feel paralyze or do not know where to start? These symptoms can be a signal of anxiety, or stress. These problems usually emerge when people are tired or have too many tasks to handle at once. You can solve this problem by taking a break. You will learn that stepping away from the situation or problem can help clear your . . .
Break Up Your Day And Become More Productive!
Often, in today’s fast paced world, we forget to take a break during our working day. We simply figure we will get much more done if we eat on the run, have less or no breaks, and work more hours. The real truth, though, is that this is counter productive and ruins the health of those trying to cram more into their day. Quality of work deteriorates and often people succumb to illness due to lac. . .
"Preliminary Steps To Self-Confidence"
The first step in developing your self-confidence is to conduct an intelligent self-examination.Poor self-confidence is a like a disease, to be diagnosed as carefully as any other sickness. Poor self-confidence arises largely from allowing your mind to habitually dwell upon negative thoughts of doubt, failure, and inefficiency. This negative power can become so great, that it affects almost eve. . .
"Building The Will"
The importance of will-power is recognized by most people, yet few deliberately give any time or thought to its development. Learning how to build and direct our will-power is a fundamental requirement for increasing the mighty power of our self-confidence.Strengthening your will-power will confer many advantages and great power. Think deeply upon the satisfaction that will come to you from do. . .
Reaping the Fruit of Success in Life
Reaping the Fruit of Success in Life One way to become more successful in our lives is to look at the lifestyle and habits of people who are already clearly reaping the fruits of success in life and living and growing towards their unique God given potential. What are some common characteristics and behaviour that we can apply to our own lives to help us on our own personal journey towards exc. . .
How to make relationships work
The keys ingredients to a healthy relationship are respect, love, trust, individuality, patience, compromise, setting goals as a couple, and intimacy.1. Respect is a two way street, you must respect your partner if you want them to respect you. Respect their thoughts, dreams, ambitions and their alone time. Treat them as you would want them to treat you when you discuss their ambitions or just . . .
Hold Tight To Your Integrity
Hold Tight To Your IntegrityBy Josh Hinds(c) While I might concede that the spoils of life don't always go to the most deserving. I hold true to the belief that without a doubt the "spoils" are always more enjoyed when one has lived a life with integrity and not sold out on the things they value most.I have known men and women who have gone from the top, to the bottom, and back to the top again. . .
How Being Intentional Makes You Happy
"Inspiration does not beget action. Action begets inspiration." - Chinese ProverbThis proverb succinctly sums up the power of intention. Nothing happens, nothing changes without intended action. An intention can best be described as an aim guiding an action. What you intend, what you truly focus your energy on, will in some form be realized. The thought alone will not make the intention come tr. . .
Squeeze To Relax!
This heading may seem like a contradiction in terms. How on earth is squeezing anything going to allow for relaxation to occur? Surely it will generate more tension, won’t it?Well, not necessarily. Indeed, combined with focused breathing it is a great tool to alleviate stress and will help those stubborn tense muscles to let go! It is a common affliction for many people to have unnecessary musc. . .
How to Keep your Relationships Strong
What is the secret of keeping your relationship going through thick and thin? Divorce was once a problem that was not heard of before many of us were born, and today, you can find some couples that have been married for 50 years or more. But, what is it that they have and had in the past that kept their relationships strong?Too many couples run head long into a relationship head over heels in l. . .
Simple ways to keep that spark in your relationship
Even with our busy lives today we can still keep romance alive and our relationship going strong. The main thing is too not let yourself and your partner get into a rut. Let them know that you love them in words and actions. A small kiss on the cheek before going to work, a note on the rear view mirror of their car, a small candy kiss placed beside their laptop with the simple words “I love you. . .
Commit to Doing 80%
Instead of trying to be perfect, it is better to do your best, and often your best doesn't look like going all out all the time. This is especially true when you are making changes in your life. Instead of setting yourself up for disappointment and failure, allow yourself some room to breathe and not be perfect. Life is a process and it takes time, so commit to doing your best 80% of the time a. . .
Creating 3D Text Effects in Photoshop
We know that with Photoshop, we can do everything that we want in terms of web and graphic design. This software has become a valuable tool in every designer’s works of art. Now, I have here the procedure from www.absolutecross.com in creating a pretty cool text effect to make it seem to melt into or "pop out of" your website's background.First, you must open a new document and make it the rig. . .
Addiction to Perfection
The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included, with hyperlinks. Notification of publication would be appreciated.Title: Addiction to Perfection Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D.E-mail: mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2005 by Margaret PaulURL: http://www.innerbonding.comWord . . .
Characteristics: Creative Types vs Clods!
Here are some odds & ends I have observed in creative-expert-genius types:Direction of motivation: creatives move toward what they want in all areas of their life while the clods move away from what they don't want. Time orientation: creatives look forward to completion. Clods look backward at how they have been unable to do it and assume future is also failure. Memory management: creatives loo. . .
THINKIN' AND THANKIN'
Generally, when it comes to long distance travel, air is preferred to ground because it gets a person there and back quicker and with less wasted time. However, since my travel took me to Malvern, Arkansas and Lancaster, Texas for two weeks of speaking, I decided to drive. It provided the familiarity of my own car rather than someone’s rental, and gave me the leisure time to enjoy the landscape. . .
Beyond Creativity
Breaking the rules and following your own are advisable at times to create and innovate your own style and discover things. But before doing so, it is necessary however to know what kind of rules you are trying to break and be familiar with the alternatives that you can substitute from the original ones.Whew! It is just so fun and exciting to explore and try new stuffs that completely according. . .
Perfect Company Brochure for Your Growing Business
It is necessary for a business to have its unique way of attracting customers and retaining old ones to gain stability and raise profit. Brochures are one of those campaign and marketing printed stuffs that will help you along the course of your expanding business.The company’s brochure and other printed marketing stuffs play a decisive role in inviting new customers, maintaining the current on. . .
Always Be Open To Learning
____________________________________________"We should not only use all the brains we have, but all we can borrow."- Woodrow Wilson____________________________________________ Leave it to a child to remind you of the importance of humility and the willingness to learn from everyone. One day, my daughter Alexandra was home sick from school. Since she was home, I took her with me when I went to . . .
The Hidden Power In Your Fears
Who wants to be afraid? In every moment, each of us is given the choice to love or to fear. A simple choice, one might think. But in this world, with violence, terrorism, war and disease becoming every day life for so many, is there anyone who hasn't struggled with fear? Whenever we're about to make a major leap forward in our spiritual development, fear always steps into our path. It's the an. . .
5-Minute Meditation: Healing Temple
Sit comfortably in a private place. Close your eyes and make sure your back is straight. Now draw your attention to your breath... Notice the rising and falling of your rib cage. Feel any tension or anxiety leaving your body with each exhale.... Pull your breath deeper into your stomach area. Let yourself relax, starting at your toes and working your way upward, until you reach the top of your. . .
5-Minute Meditation: Flower of Change
Take a moment alone and settle into your body. Close your eyes, relax and breathe... deeply, slowly.Visualize yourself walking through the woods. Glistening, new-fallen snow carpets the trail beneath your feet. Breathe in the cool air and feel it refreshing you. Exhale slowly, letting all your worries out with your breath. Spirit is with you and you are expanding your consciousness to take in t. . .
Dump the to-do list
When I was a child, the minute hand on the clock went at a snail’s pace. Now there is never enough time. I used to think the answer to this problem was to-do lists. I had one at work, one at home and one for the weekends. I prioritized. I delegated. Learned to say no. Still my to-do list grew faster than I could tick items off. And, although I’d created the list to better manage my time, my to-. . .
Choose To Become An Encourager
____________________________________________“...I know that the only source of happiness is within me, and I will begin to share it. Like a perfume, I know that I cannot pour it on others without getting a few drops on myself."- Og Mandino, "The Choice" "You cannot antagonize and influence at the same time."- John Knox____________________________________________ The childhood chant "Sticks and . . .
The Great Opportunity
I assume you want to be happier. Searching for greater happiness is a wonderful thing whatever level of happiness you are currently at. It could be that you are already enjoying life and just searching for a new idea, or it could be that you have felt negative towards life or the experiences life has dealt you. If you feel in anyway negative about life I would like to share something with you.I. . .
Emergency Living
There are times, when I am driving in my car being passed by so many other cars speeding along, that I could swear there is an emergency somewhere and I wasn't invited. It seems everyone is in a hurry to get somewhere. The other day I was sitting at a red light, the light turned green and the car in front of me sped away. At the next traffic light the same car was sitting in front of me and, wh. . .
If You Are Not Ready, Don't Start
There are times when we feel we should take action, but feel stuck or unsure. Action does assist with moving forward, but the first question to ask is "Am I ready?". We might be willing and able, but if we are not ready we will have a false start. We will sabotage ourselves.Being ready is about commitment. Being ready is also a mindset. At times we have to be pretty fed up before we are really . . .
Enroll in Car College
One of the most overlooked opportunities for learning and personal growth is the time we spend in our cars. There really isn't much we can do safely in our car but drive. I know I see people doing all kinds of things such as curling their hair, putting their makeup on and talking on the telephone. All of those things are distracting. There is something we can do in our cars to make any commute . . .
The Law of Large Numbers
It is often said that sales is a numbers game. The more people we contact, the more chances we have to make a sale. That seems pretty obvious. The more people we contact the better chance we have of making a sale.This doesn't just work in sales. It works in life. If we want to get a date or find a job the more people we talk to, the greater chance we have of being successful. Sitting at home wi. . .
A Live It
Real change happens only when it becomes part of our everyday life. When a change becomes a habit, it isn't something new we are trying, but becomes part of what we do as our routine. I was reading a Wynona Judd interview and they asked her about her diet. She replied that she wasn't on a diet; she was on "A Live It." I thought this was great because the risk of a diet or any change is that we . . .
People Are Who They Want To Be
Choice isn't always a matter of being able to choose what happens to us. Life happens, and often without any say from us. However, our circumstances do not determine who we become. Only we have the choice to determine that. Everyone is who he or she wants to be, regardless of what one might think. We all have choices and each choice leads to the creation of who we are.There is a great quote tha. . .
Everyone Needs a BAG (Big Audacious Goal)
A Big Audacious Goal (BAG) is a clear and compelling catalyst that serves as a focal point for effort. Unlike smaller goals, the BAG is something that is huge. It is challenging and in some ways seems impossible - but a BAG is also inspiring, compelling, and motivating.Everyone needs a BAG. BAGs challenge us to be more than we are right now, and to tap into all of our resources. BAGs bring out . . .
There Are Always More Nos Than Yeses
Although it may not seem true, if we think about it, we will come to realize that there are always more nos than yeses. We will be turned down more often than not. The good news is that the more nos we get the more the yeses will increase. It is a numbers game. The more often we ask the more our chances of success increase.If, just for fun, we took a jar and put a penny in it for every no we re. . .
The Spectacular You
I recently received a letter addressed to Spectacular Rachelle Lee. At first I thought it was a joke. Who would write such a thing? I then thought maybe it was a mistake. Whatever it was, I knew it did not feel comfortable. It turned out to be an advertisement, for what I am not even sure. What I am sure of is that the way it was addressed caught my attention, and I realized how difficult it ca. . .
Mindfulness and Birthdays: Surprising Moments
The first week of May is a big birthday time for my family. My husband's birthday is May 3rd, and my oldest daughter's is May 6th. This convergence seemed almost too good to be true the week that Taeko was born. We were living in rural Japan, and it was Golden Week, a period of several national holidays that generally coincides with the magnificent display of cherry trees in bloom. Back in 1986. . .
You Can't Have An Intelligent Conversation With Everyone
Intelligent conversation is one of life's pleasures. I love nothing better than to engage in conversation with someone who has ideas to share, different perspectives, and is interesting. An intelligent conversation is food for the brain. All too sadly, not everyone can carry on an intelligent conversation. This has less to do with their intelligence quotient (IQ) than with their emotional quoti. . .
Don't Settle
Settling is about not embracing what is best for you, and accepting what you really don't want. When you settle, you accept less than you deserve. Settling becomes a habit and a way of life, but it doesn't have to be. According to Maureen Dowd, "The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for!” People settle every day in every way. They settle for unsatis. . .
Don't Be Jealous - Be Inspired
When we see people do things we cannot do, or have things we don't have, it might be tempting to be a little jealous. But, jealousy doesn't lead to anything except resentment, and that isn't going to help you. Instead of being jealous of others, focus on being inspired. Let the success of others move you forward toward your own success. After all, people who are doing things you want to do or h. . .
6 Great Ways To Improve Your Social Skills
If you are looking for a way to improve your social skills,there are many resources available that will assist you inrefining your social skills and improving the way youcommunicate with others.It's not only possible to learn how to improve your social skills; it's easier than you think.Imagine how much simpler your life would be if you couldrid yourself of nagging self-doubt and have confidenc. . .
Do You Have Your Best Life?
For many years I had a good life. My illness was reasonably under control, I had a nice relationship with my husband, I did work I didn’t hate. It was, as I said, a good life.But there’s a saying that the good is the enemy of the best. I finally realized this one day, and began making my best life. I changed doctors and got on new medication that completely relieved my symptoms, rather than jus. . .
The Secret to Staying Centered and Happy in a Troubled World
Many of us are probably so used to crisis in the world that it has become a natural part of our mental scenery. We’ve grown accustomed to living in a world where acts of bitter conflict, unrest, and inhumanity are everyday things, and their constant contradiction with our essential values almost seems normal.But are we really aware of the effect that these daily messages have on our minds and a. . .
the truth behind your FINANCES!
Between 15 - 20% of people in our country own there own businesses. This statistic is on the rise thanks to the incredible invention of the Internet. The staggering truth is that of these only 5% are genuinely financially free! You may well see lots of expensive cars driving on our roads and big houses inhabited by the seemingly wealthy, but these houses and cars are not yet paid for. Never in . . .
What Do You Want This Year?
Christmas is all around us, and many people are making up wish lists. Those who aren’t doing that are busy setting down their New Year’s Resolutions already. But this is a good time to sit down and do some serious introspection.What do you want from the holidays this year? Do you want to rush around, spend a lot of money you don’t have, and yell at the kids for not playing with all twenty of th. . .
The REAL Secret of Success
I used to see a chiropractor who handed out a little leaflet entitled “Dr. Hickman’s Guide to Success in Business.” It was very nice, had his picture on the front and was professionally printed. On the inside it said, “Get a job and go to work every morning.” There is a secret to success, believe it or not, and I’m going to tell you what those people who are “successful” do, that people who are. . .
"I Need to Accomplish Something"
Do you have trouble taking a day off? Boy, I do. When I take a day off I lie around all day, read novels, eat whatever I want, take a nap, and generally do whatever I want. It’s awful. I get depressed, I don’t feel well, I don’t accomplish anything.Did you catch that last phrase? “I don’t accomplish anything.” Well, of course not, it’s a DAY OFF. But do you ever feel that way? That you should b. . .
Release your anger into your DIARY OF EMOTIONS
In order for you to make positive ground daily you need an avenue of escapism that allows you to shed the emotional baggage that we all carry around with us. The largest and indeed the most dangerous aspect of failure is your emotional status.There are always going to be people who you dislike or disagree with over some issue that is important to you. It may well be your boss that you hold a pr. . .
We All Send Signals
Think for a moment about all of the signals people send. As much as some try we cannot compartmentalize our lives. We are all affected by our spirituality, our intellect, our emotions, and our physical ability, and each area of our lives affects the other. Our bodies send signals of all kinds to those around us, and even to our own soul. Did you know that the word psychology is named after the . . .
Nothing Changes Without Planning
Right now I'm "doing what's in front of me" so to speak. However, when I decided to write articles, I knew I wanted it to be consistent so that I would be sending a professional "signal" to all of you. That took some planning. We most definitely have to know what we want out of life in order to get it. That takes some thought and some more planning. Do you want to travel to Australia? Do you wa. . .
Journaling - A Key to Joy
Are you interested in finding your authentic voice? Would you like to be more confident? Does the sound of personal freedom tickle your fancy? Would you like to learn more about yourself in a very compassionate way? Do you suspect there may be treasures hidden inside you that so far you've been unable to identify and put to use? Are you looking for a way to systematically make positive changes . . .
How to DESIGN A DREAM WALL!
A great way of attuning yourself daily to what your deepest dreams and wants are is to create yourself a DREAM WALL.Use books and magazines or search online for images of the things that you want in your life. These should be images of the materialistic achievements you wish to experience in reality in the not to distant future. Once you have located these pictures cut them out and place them i. . .
What Does it Take to Make Life Better?
What does it take for you to pay attention?You’ve probably heard this said, or said it yourself sometime, “I just realised how precious life is.” Maybe you heard it when a relative died or maybe you said it after an accident or some other emotional event, but did you stop to consider the grander meaning to what you say… What if every experience in your life is sent to you so you can understand . . .
For The Business Man in You
Have you always dream of owning your own Business and working in the comfort of your own home ?As human we all want to succeed. We all want the best from life. We all want to be wealthy, to have a great house, to travel around the globe. A great wife and beautiful and healthy kids.To have all of this you don't need to be a genius, have luck or to rob a bank. All you need is that you use the pow. . .
Five Minutes Before the Miracle
Even though this article was next on my idea list, and I write them in order whether I want to or not, I REALLY didn’t want to write this article. Why not? Because it’s about not giving up five minutes before the miracle—and I’m in the process of doing just that.I won’t go into a lot of details, but there’s something I really want, that I thought was within my grasp. I found out a few hours ago. . .
Letting Go of Clutter In Your Office
Some people would say I’m the last person in the world to be writing about clearing out clutter; I seem to accumulate so much of it. But I also get rid of it, when it reaches the point of bothering me. That’s the first thing about clearing out clutter. Everyone has a threshold at which the clutter starts to bother them. My husband’s threshold is much lower than mine, and when he starts clearing. . .
Is The Apprentice Bad For Your Health?
Is THE APPRENTICE Bad For Your Health?Angie DixonIf you know who I mean when I say Kwame, Bill and Troy, you’re probably a fan of The Apprentice. I admit I’m not a fan myself; I don’t watch much television and that particular show didn’t grab my interest enough to be “appointment” watching. I have, however, followed its popularity with interest, for various reasons. The main reason I’m so inter. . .
Be Grateful for Gratitude
In Twelve Step meetings, it’s traditional to groan when someone says, “Let’s have a gratitude meeting.” People don’t like to talk or think about what they’re grateful for. It’s not in our nature. We’re more tuned to what’s going wrong than what’s going right. We can’t help it. The cave men who sat around and admired how white the teeth on the saber toothed tiger were, didn’t last long enough to. . .
Your Growing Edge
You’ve probably heard the term “leading edge” used to refer to technology or products that are in front of the curve, that are really advanced. You may have even heard the term “bleeding edge” in this context. I want to talk to you about your personal “leading edge,” your growing edge.Your growing edge is that area of your life where there’s still a lot of room for improvement but you’re pushin. . .
Doing Your Life's Work
Most people want to do their life’s work. Some people are able to separate work completely from life and be happy doing anything, but this is not the norm. I once knew a man who managed things for a living. He’d managed a restaurant for several years, seen an ad in the paper, and become manager of a print shop. He didn’t particularly like the job, but he didn’t hate it. And I will never forget . . .
We're Good at the Things We Like
Read that again. It doesn’t say “We like the things we’re good at,” though that’s true as well. No, it says we’re good at the things we like. That statement was made to me just today in reference to something I hate to do and am not very good at. I just nodded, thinking I’d heard it the other way around, or that my sister had said it backwards. Then she repeated it and said, “It works the other. . .
What Being vs Doing Really Means
So often we hear about “being” rather than “doing.” Often it’s given as advice when we are overwhelmed, overworked and overstressed. “You should just ‘be.’ You’re doing too much.” Well, yes, obviously, but what does that MEAN? How do we just be?I happen to think the people saying this don’t even really know what it means and are just giving it as a platitude, trying to help, but it doesn’t help. . .
When Failure is a Gift
I wanted, for many many years, to be a mystery writer. Finally I wrote a mystery novel. I got a best-selling novelist to be my mentor and help me with the rewrite. I got an agent. They sent the book out. And sent it out. And sent it out. And it went nowhere.I tried writing another book, and my mentor told me to dump it and start a third book. I did, but couldn’t get into the idea and the book n. . .
What's Simple?
If you walk up to a stranger in the grocery store and ask them to define “simple,” as in “simple life,” they’ll probably say something like “having less stuff.” Or they might hit you with a frozen turkey. But probably they’ll associate simple with stuff.The thing is that simple is not about how much or how little you have. You can have all the stuff you want and have a simple life. That’s the k. . .
The Magic of Hearing
I’m working on a coach training certification, and one of the “proficiencies” I’m expected to have mastered is “engages in provocative conversations.” Now, that really got me thinking. What’s a provocative conversation?Well, the word “provocative” means that the conversation provokes something—hopefully a reaction from the client which helps take them to another level. The ideal response to the. . .
Your Support Network
Quick. Who’s in your support network? Huh? What’s a support network? Do I have a support network? Honey, who’s in my support network? Your support network is that group of people you can go to with problems, questions, to vent, to cry on their shoulders. Friends, for starters. Who are your close friends? Are they available to you when you need them? If they’re not, why aren’t you looking for di. . .
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